There’s one beauty element to this Jon and Kate Gosselin situation, and a gaggle of hairstylists have spoken out, some more kindly than others. What is up with Kate’s hair? We get it, you’re a mother, and parenting eight kids means you can’t have long hair slowing you down. That’s cool. But that whole spiky on the top/smooth in front ‘do…we’re concerned that you’re just influential enough to inspire other women to adopt the look. We offer a simple solution: Choose punk or soccer mom. But you can’t have both.